Lets face it, we all have different likes and dislikes and thats perfectly okay.  Sex, relationships and lifestyles are not one size fits all.  “Different strokes for different folks”  as they say ;)  There may be times when you and your partner(s) wish to explore new things, times when fantasies or desires run through your head creating pleasure or distress, and times when you need to learn how to discuss certain needs with your partner(s). During these times, its helpful to talk about it with someone who wont judge, has knowledge in those subjects and is not afraid to go there. 

I assist my clients in finding the relationships, lifestyles and experiences that best suit their individual needs .  By creating a safe space to explore those thoughts , we can work together to realize those fantasies in a healthy, safe and fulfilling way. Some of the reasons you might want to work with me include 

*Finding out your partner is into certain things you are not into and need to find a way to make your sex life work for both of you

*You and your partner have decided to explore S&M and need to discuss how to negotiate boundaries in a healthy way

*You want to learn how to discuss your sexual needs with your partner(s)


*You would like to learn more about :
  Role Play 
  Cuckold dynamics
  Anything else

  Nothing is off topic or frowned upon in this office! 

*Its important to know that I am sex positive and will not work to “cure you”  as I do not believe there is anything wrong with you. I  only work with clients to process and explore their needs in a healthy way . If you feel you have an addiction or psychiatric problem I would be more than happy to refer you to a good resource. 

Alternative Lifestyles

I hold a Master's Degree in Counseling , a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology . I am a Certified Sex Coach and Licensed in Texas as a Licensed Professional Counselor .  I am a Texas native currently "keeping it weird"  with my cat Buffy in the amazing city of Austin. I have experience in many settings aside from private practice including inpatient crisis centers,  community mental health centers,  provide consultation to a Fortune 500 company and low cost counseling to the local LGBT community at OutYouth Austin.  

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Carlos Cavazos , MA, LPC

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